Comments on: A Brief Guide to Loving Everyone

By: Andrea DeBell

Andrea DeBell — Thu, 30 Sep 2010 16:35:53 +0000

Hi Carlisia! Good for you. I like how you stay true to your list. I have list AD&D sometimes. I love lists but tend to stray from them. I have to use lots of will power to stay on track.

Thanks for taking action and making it happen today. Loving blessings!

By: Carlisia

Carlisia — Thu, 23 Sep 2010 01:13:39 +0000

“Be the one to start loving, instead of waiting for others to love you first.”

I have put this on my todo list, moved it to the top and made it due today, so it will be there as a reminder as I check the list a few times throughout the day, everyday!

By: Andrea DeBell

Andrea DeBell — Fri, 17 Sep 2010 17:27:18 +0000

Hi Mira! Appreciation is always a wonderful gift. :)
Thanks for visiting and for sharing your thoughts! Loving blessings!

By: Mira

Mira — Tue, 14 Sep 2010 00:26:29 +0000

Wonderful post! It makes me appreciate where people are in their lives.

By: Andrea DeBell

Andrea DeBell — Sun, 12 Sep 2010 06:30:36 +0000

Hi Debbie! Yes, when we feel compassion for others, our hearts melt and open up to others like a blooming flower. It can then be very easy to love.

Thanks for sharing your beautiful thoughts. Many loving blessings!

By: Debbie @ Happy Maker

Debbie @ Happy Maker — Fri, 10 Sep 2010 14:38:15 +0000

Yes, it is possible to love everyone. Like you said, we have to keep from judging them. That is the part that stops the love. Feel compassion for other and the love will follow.
Debbie

By: Andrea DeBell

Andrea DeBell — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 23:05:50 +0000

Hi Sam! This approach can definitely help with stress. When we let love in, there is no room for stress, fear, or anger. Love pretty much is the cure for all maladies. :)

Good luck practicing love at work and throughout life.

Thanks for visiting. Loving blessings, my friend!

By: Sam Thatte

Sam Thatte — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 15:45:05 +0000

Andrea,
I work at a busy restaurant and it can get stressful at times. After reading your post, I realized that I sometimes put myself in a different state of mind to deal with the stress. I guess I make myself love everyone I am dealing with during that time and positive energies start flowing through my body and my mind. “Love continuously” is something I still need to work on.

Very thought-provoking post for me. Thanks for the great work.
Sam Thatte

By: Andrea DeBell

Andrea DeBell — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 15:09:16 +0000

I love your hardcore approach of no middle road. That’s pretty much how I feel about life, no compromises only choices. Amen that love is a decision that we make. It gives us the option to live in a loving world instead of being victim of the world.

It’s always lovely to hear your input. Loving blessings!

By: Andre

Andre — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 08:05:19 +0000

There are two alternatives in life – love or hate.
There is no middle path of indifference because the world we live in is mostly negative. With that in mind, we often fall into the fear trap of hatred.
The first two commandments are to love God and then your neighbor as yourself. If you can live by this plumb line then the rest of the rules fall away because you’ll not cause anyone harm.
Is it an easy path? No; but love never fails, fades out, becomes obsolete or comes to an end.
Pure love is a decision not an emotion.